Hi, I'm Kevin Baharvand, and I’d like to share a special story with you from my book, Daddy on Duty. It’s about my son’s first soccer game—an experience that taught me as much about parenting as it did about sports.
Picture this: my four-year-old son, Luca, standing on the soccer field, full of energy and excitement. He’s all about dinosaurs and unicorns—he even calls himself a “dinocorn.” As a former soccer player myself, I couldn’t wait to see him take on the world (or at least the opposing team, the Dragons). I quickly learned, though, that kids’ soccer games aren’t about fancy plays or goals. They’re chaotic, hilarious, and, most of all, filled with life lessons.
During that game, Luca struggled, got distracted, and even lost interest at one point. I found myself on the sidelines, caught between wanting him to “win” and realizing that it wasn’t about winning at all. Instead, it was about showing up, learning, and having fun. That moment made me reflect on my role not just as a coach on the sidelines, but as a father who’s there to support him no matter the outcome.
Daddy on Duty is full of stories like this—moments that capture the challenges and joys of fatherhood. It’s about embracing imperfection, staying present, and learning alongside your kids. Whether it’s sports, school events, or bedtime chaos, parenting has taught me lessons I couldn’t have learned anywhere else.
Personal stories about parenting and bonding with my kids.
Lessons on balancing work and family life.
Practical advice for dads (and moms) on how to stay engaged in their children’s lives.
This isn’t a guide to being a perfect parent—it’s a reflection on learning and growing through everyday moments, like that unforgettable soccer game with Luca.
I'm excited to share this journey with you, and I hope the stories in Daddy on Duty resonate with you and your family. You can grab a copy here:
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Thank you for your support! Whether you're a parent, soon-to-be parent, or just someone who enjoys heartfelt stories, I hope this book inspires you as much as these experiences have shaped me.